My View..

I had been receiving a few mails in the last week which were about handling a situation. This article is a consolidated version of all those mails. Hope you enjoy..

All of us have heard about the 10/90 rule which says – You don’t have control on 10% of the things that are happening to you, but the remaining 90% depends on how you react to that 10%. For a situation, we can either respond or react. Reactions are instinctive and responses are intellectual. In between the stimuli (what happens to us) and the response (what happens through us), if there is no gap, it is a reaction. If there is a gap between the two, we could think and contemplate and respond thoughtfully, ending up in winning the situation. What disturbs us is not the traffic jam but our inability to handle the disturbance caused by the traffic jam.

Intellectual handling doesn’t mean that we have to be thoughtful about everything that is happening to us. If that is the case, we will miss all the fun in life. Actually, we will be missing the greatest fun, the Life itself. We are like prepaid cards and our validity has been already decided, while we were activated. We need to live life to the fullest of our souls as life is a one time present and we must know to extract the utmost fun out of it. Fun doesn’t mean that we could break the rules of living. Giving our 100% in anything, will always make us feel proud. But, this mustn’t be stressing up our living. We are not here to work our lives out and die in stress. Life is like a garden. We are surrounded by flowers, thorns, mud, grass, dew drops, stones and lot other constituents. It is in our hands to either enjoy or complain about the variety, because Change is the only thing that keeps us going. Without change, Living would have become uneventful or monotonous. Life is like a lemon and spoon game. It doesn’t make any sense, if we come first in the race without the lemon. Lemon here comprises of our family, health and the zeal to survive.


Take chances..
Tell the truth..
Date someone totally wrong for u..
Learn to say no..
Spend all your money..
Fall in love..
Feel the first kiss..
Get to know someone in random..
Say I love u to someone in life..
Be mean..
Make fun of people..
Sing out loud..
Laugh at a stupid joke.. Cry..
Take revenge..
Apologise..
Laugh when you fall..
Get into a fight..
Tell someone how much they mean to you..
Tell that idiot how he/she hurts you..
Let someone know what they are missing..
Abuse someone who deserves it..
Sit alone, watch the rain and cry..
Laugh till your stomach hurts..
Dance even if you suck at it..
Pose stupidly for pictures..
Give someone a hug when they need it..
Make sure you get one when u do..
Act like a kid..
Jump up and down..

Live life and love it.. Because life is just once..