--# When someone loves u, u don’t realize it, when u realize it, it’s too late. U always love the one who leaves u and leave the one who loves u.
--# To love someone is madness and to be loved by someone is gift. Loving someone who loves u is duty, but being loved by someone whom u love is life.
--# Loving someone deeply gives u courage. Being deeply loved by someone gives u strength. Friendship often ends in love, but love in friendship never ends.
--# Speak less to people u love the most, because if they cannot understand ur silence they can never understand ur words.
--# ‘I trust u’ is a better compliment than ‘I love u’ because u may not always trust the person u love but u can always love the person whom u trust.
--# The greatest gift u can give to someone is ur time because when u give someone ur time, u have given them a portion of ur life that u will never get back.
--# Friendship is like an onion, which has many layers in it. It will add taste to ur life, but if u try to cut it, it will cause tears.
--# Life is a different type of teacher. A teacher teaches lesson then keeps the exam. But LIFE keeps the exam first then teaches the lesson.
--# Never take some one for granted. Hold every person close to ur heart because u might wake up one day and realise that u have lost a diamond while u were too busy collecting stones.
Showing posts with label Life. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Life. Show all posts
Tuesday, September 20, 2011
Tuesday, May 18, 2010
My View..
I had been receiving a few mails in the last week which were about handling a situation. This article is a consolidated version of all those mails. Hope you enjoy..
All of us have heard about the 10/90 rule which says – You don’t have control on 10% of the things that are happening to you, but the remaining 90% depends on how you react to that 10%. For a situation, we can either respond or react. Reactions are instinctive and responses are intellectual. In between the stimuli (what happens to us) and the response (what happens through us), if there is no gap, it is a reaction. If there is a gap between the two, we could think and contemplate and respond thoughtfully, ending up in winning the situation. What disturbs us is not the traffic jam but our inability to handle the disturbance caused by the traffic jam.
Intellectual handling doesn’t mean that we have to be thoughtful about everything that is happening to us. If that is the case, we will miss all the fun in life. Actually, we will be missing the greatest fun, the Life itself. We are like prepaid cards and our validity has been already decided, while we were activated. We need to live life to the fullest of our souls as life is a one time present and we must know to extract the utmost fun out of it. Fun doesn’t mean that we could break the rules of living. Giving our 100% in anything, will always make us feel proud. But, this mustn’t be stressing up our living. We are not here to work our lives out and die in stress. Life is like a garden. We are surrounded by flowers, thorns, mud, grass, dew drops, stones and lot other constituents. It is in our hands to either enjoy or complain about the variety, because Change is the only thing that keeps us going. Without change, Living would have become uneventful or monotonous. Life is like a lemon and spoon game. It doesn’t make any sense, if we come first in the race without the lemon. Lemon here comprises of our family, health and the zeal to survive.
Take chances..
Tell the truth..
Date someone totally wrong for u..
Learn to say no..
Spend all your money..
Fall in love..
Feel the first kiss..
Get to know someone in random..
Say I love u to someone in life..
Be mean..
Make fun of people..
Sing out loud..
Laugh at a stupid joke.. Cry..
Take revenge..
Apologise..
Laugh when you fall..
Get into a fight..
Tell someone how much they mean to you..
Tell that idiot how he/she hurts you..
Let someone know what they are missing..
Abuse someone who deserves it..
Sit alone, watch the rain and cry..
Laugh till your stomach hurts..
Dance even if you suck at it..
Pose stupidly for pictures..
Give someone a hug when they need it..
Make sure you get one when u do..
Act like a kid..
Jump up and down..
Live life and love it.. Because life is just once..
All of us have heard about the 10/90 rule which says – You don’t have control on 10% of the things that are happening to you, but the remaining 90% depends on how you react to that 10%. For a situation, we can either respond or react. Reactions are instinctive and responses are intellectual. In between the stimuli (what happens to us) and the response (what happens through us), if there is no gap, it is a reaction. If there is a gap between the two, we could think and contemplate and respond thoughtfully, ending up in winning the situation. What disturbs us is not the traffic jam but our inability to handle the disturbance caused by the traffic jam.
Intellectual handling doesn’t mean that we have to be thoughtful about everything that is happening to us. If that is the case, we will miss all the fun in life. Actually, we will be missing the greatest fun, the Life itself. We are like prepaid cards and our validity has been already decided, while we were activated. We need to live life to the fullest of our souls as life is a one time present and we must know to extract the utmost fun out of it. Fun doesn’t mean that we could break the rules of living. Giving our 100% in anything, will always make us feel proud. But, this mustn’t be stressing up our living. We are not here to work our lives out and die in stress. Life is like a garden. We are surrounded by flowers, thorns, mud, grass, dew drops, stones and lot other constituents. It is in our hands to either enjoy or complain about the variety, because Change is the only thing that keeps us going. Without change, Living would have become uneventful or monotonous. Life is like a lemon and spoon game. It doesn’t make any sense, if we come first in the race without the lemon. Lemon here comprises of our family, health and the zeal to survive.
Take chances..
Tell the truth..
Date someone totally wrong for u..
Learn to say no..
Spend all your money..
Fall in love..
Feel the first kiss..
Get to know someone in random..
Say I love u to someone in life..
Be mean..
Make fun of people..
Sing out loud..
Laugh at a stupid joke.. Cry..
Take revenge..
Apologise..
Laugh when you fall..
Get into a fight..
Tell someone how much they mean to you..
Tell that idiot how he/she hurts you..
Let someone know what they are missing..
Abuse someone who deserves it..
Sit alone, watch the rain and cry..
Laugh till your stomach hurts..
Dance even if you suck at it..
Pose stupidly for pictures..
Give someone a hug when they need it..
Make sure you get one when u do..
Act like a kid..
Jump up and down..
Live life and love it.. Because life is just once..
Sunday, April 11, 2010
Life..
LIFE: Just a four letter word, but its one of the biggest gifts that anyone can earn for themselves. It has its own beautiful ways of teaching values. Life, is a teacher that teaches us with experiences. Not everybody has been able to live life king size, and it includes me too.
According to many people who know me, I had always been screwing up things, when it could have been a very smooth travel, if I had acted the other way. I always kept thinking why I had taken a particular decision.
Whenever I look back, I feel that My life, was really a very enthusiastic, vivid one till I scored a very high score in my twelfth standard. Being one among the school toppers, I was suggested to join one of the leading institutions for my Integrated Masters in Software Engineering. From then, it had been a much stressed living, as I was away from my loved ones. I was surviving all alone. But from day one I was out of home, Life had been teaching me something or the other. As I had told earlier, I started learning from my experiences.
I adapted myself to a new society, made new friends, built new relationships, tried to hold up with them, succeeded in a few and failed in most, understood people’s perspective, communicated, learnt and kept updating my knowledge repository with all that I got. With these inputs, I established my unique identity, or what is called my Individuality. Day by day, I found that my identity was getting shaped up, with the new experiences I had and lessons I learnt from them. One fine day, I decided to use up the repository I created for myself. I decided to make myself someone a bit better than an Emotional person. This was a very painful decision that would affect lot of preset things and people in my life. I took this risk as I felt that it would be something which I will need in a long run. And I understand that, this is a journey of thousand miles and I have just taken a few steps. My transformation looks very minimal from outside. But it is a very troublesome and heavy assignment for a person like me, who breaks down after a certain amount of blockage. I am very grateful, to lot of people, who walked into my life in some instance, left an impression in me and helped/are helping me through the transformation. Without them, even the few steps which I took would not have been possible.
I understand now that, I scored well in my twelfth standard to be out of home, to learn things by myself, to fill my knowledge repository, and to under go this tranformation so that I will be able to face my future challenges, in a better way.
Undergoing the tranformation, now I understand, Life: The puzzle that puzzles you more when you try to solve it. Life has its own way of teaching us values..!
According to many people who know me, I had always been screwing up things, when it could have been a very smooth travel, if I had acted the other way. I always kept thinking why I had taken a particular decision.
Whenever I look back, I feel that My life, was really a very enthusiastic, vivid one till I scored a very high score in my twelfth standard. Being one among the school toppers, I was suggested to join one of the leading institutions for my Integrated Masters in Software Engineering. From then, it had been a much stressed living, as I was away from my loved ones. I was surviving all alone. But from day one I was out of home, Life had been teaching me something or the other. As I had told earlier, I started learning from my experiences.
I adapted myself to a new society, made new friends, built new relationships, tried to hold up with them, succeeded in a few and failed in most, understood people’s perspective, communicated, learnt and kept updating my knowledge repository with all that I got. With these inputs, I established my unique identity, or what is called my Individuality. Day by day, I found that my identity was getting shaped up, with the new experiences I had and lessons I learnt from them. One fine day, I decided to use up the repository I created for myself. I decided to make myself someone a bit better than an Emotional person. This was a very painful decision that would affect lot of preset things and people in my life. I took this risk as I felt that it would be something which I will need in a long run. And I understand that, this is a journey of thousand miles and I have just taken a few steps. My transformation looks very minimal from outside. But it is a very troublesome and heavy assignment for a person like me, who breaks down after a certain amount of blockage. I am very grateful, to lot of people, who walked into my life in some instance, left an impression in me and helped/are helping me through the transformation. Without them, even the few steps which I took would not have been possible.
I understand now that, I scored well in my twelfth standard to be out of home, to learn things by myself, to fill my knowledge repository, and to under go this tranformation so that I will be able to face my future challenges, in a better way.
Undergoing the tranformation, now I understand, Life: The puzzle that puzzles you more when you try to solve it. Life has its own way of teaching us values..!
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